Saturday, February 2, 2008

and i really liked this one.....(shhh ..its a secret)


you know, i really should just give up on guys...true talk. gbo-gbo nonsense yi, is just getting on my last dam nerves.


becos all this dramatilizations occurring in my ever crazy life never seems to end.

okay, so i hung up the phone on him, whats the big deal, maybe i was just looking for a way out that will hurt his feelings and give me a clear pass to waka away= move on

you know,

1: his work hours were crazy, i wasn't talking or seeing him, i had a slight feeling it was all about sex,

2: anyway i was getting tired of the falling asleep on the phone crap becos he is tired and just came out of surgery,

3: or the putting me on hold, drama becos his pager went off,


4: or no being able to go out on proper dates cos he was on call and his hospital might page him,


5: or him working nights, or him coming to take me out on dates in his scrubs becos he was really tired and culdnt go home to change....the list goes on


to continue the story, hahah, i brought up the issue of us not hanging out, thats how this brotha starts talking about me saying i want a relationship, ..WHAT. i think he must think he was God's creation to girls..

he wasn't listening, he was just hearing what he wanted to hear, i wasn't talking becos i wanted to take this further, i was talking becos i was tired!!

there really was no point trying to tell him that i was tired of all this and wanted to waka far=walk away.

so i just hung up the phone..KAPPISh.. end of story, so am single again...as usual
...so here is another story again about me and guys.

and i really liked this one.

update:....

not to sound like a bitch, i really liked him, but he not making time for me was hurting me,and i had to look out 4 myself.
his schedule/work hours was crazy , this wasn't his fault. it was the wrong time for both of us. i had to let him go or he was goin to end up hurting me.

21 comments:

Bhookey said...

eh yah pele but maybe u shouldnt have hung up on him, like u said it was the wrong time for both of u, u should have at least ended stuff on good ground and all, anyhooos its all bout looking out for urself jo

ShadeCrown said...

wow, maybe u should have been a lil patient or maybe he just wasnt the right person for u. Well all that matters is u, and as long as ure happy with the decisions uve made, ull be ayt.

Anonymous said...

perhaps you should just have told him how you felt?

Anonymous said...

breakable u and dis ur temper u have to cool down u know how dis guys are, not saying u should not look out for urself thou cos men u really have to anyways when urs comes along there will not be so much drama and if he is the one he will come back without the hassles me think but anyways hold onto ur pride and walk tall, rememeber u'r beautiful

Rinsola said...

Don't give up just yet, Try taking your time at least you've learnt from this experience. But next time, let the other party know how you feel. Ma worry, you'ld blog about a steady one pretty soon.

Anonymous said...

eyah pele...but dont give up just yet!you guys need to talk

Unknown said...

Personally, I do not encourage people to date those in the medical professions unless they know exactly what they are going into. Most of my family members in the states are in medicine and all you hear is pagers and beepers going off. Very annoying.

Anyways sha, if you can't do it, don't do it.

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La Reine said...

Ooh girl sawrees.
Wish you would have made it clear wat you wanted sha, but its all good.
Takia

Anonymous said...

...eeyahh:(

Anonymous said...

Why not just talk to him?

Lighty 'neferet' Kopearl said...

wow! i hate stuff like this, especially when u really like them. awww i think u shuld talk to him. but would talking to him change anything? as far as his job goes i think that wouldnt change plus its the bottom line of the problem.

and wotz this about him not wanting to talk about a relationship? i mean wotz up with that?

Lighty 'neferet' Kopearl said...

wow! i hate stuff like this, especially when u really like them. awww i think u shuld talk to him. but would talking to him change anything? as far as his job goes i think that wouldnt change plus its the bottom line of the problem.

and wotz this about him not wanting to talk about a relationship? i mean wotz up with that?

Joy Akut said...

lol'...its crazy dating a doctor, and u've got to be really down to stay put in that relationship.

maybe he'll realize how much u meant soon enuf..when the next girl slaps him for showing up on a date in his scrubs..lol

Sasuke said...

i feel you just wakaing away is not the right thing. comfront the dude and bear your mind to him and if he still keeps up, bitch slap the dude and let him take a walk

princesa said...

Lots of fishes in the river babes.
Just throw out ur bait agin...this time it may be for good!

Happy vals day!

classybabe said...

Happy Vals day!

Anonymous said...

Ahwwwww

Hope you find Love again

Anonymous said...

things happen 4 a reason?

Ms. emmotions said...

first time here,

like to add my 2cents dear,

maybe u like him,maybe not, i think if u really wanna get hooked to him or like him enof u wuda ve been able to compromise a little, thats if he really cared and wanted something deep, not that i blame u for not wanting to get hurt, ,,,who wants to get hurt by these guys anyways,

cheers

shhhh said...

sometimes its better to cut them off b4 they cut u open

Manda said...

well, the toyintomato i know will sure find someone else soonest. Pele dear, hope it does not hurt anymore.

Congrats on da success. How have thou being?